Monday, October 17, 2011
Redeeming Halloween
To trick or to treat - the age old question around Halloween right? NO... if like me you grew up in the the church you probably have heard "Halloween is the devils night, and thou shalt have nothing to do with it". So the question really is " to trick or treat" or "to hid in the basement with the lights out hoping no one will knock on my door asking for candy".
I have heard all the historical facts or fiction of Halloween, it's symbolism, and many a story of what people used to do on Halloween. I have read the tracts, the warnings and the scary tales of demonic prowess that seem to prevail in halloween'ology. The fact remains that Halloween is still a huge tension for many christians. With a past so dark and devilish as it is for Halloween, it would seem that associating with such ghosts and ghouls may actually turn you into one. Right?
Here's my take on Halloween! Sure... it has some icky roots! Sure, there are many a people out there who choose to do odd, horrible or strange things in the name of Halloween, and sure, there are many scary costumes, ideas and images that prevail. My question is, why is hiding the right answer to this? As carriers of the Holy Spirit - WHO is GOD - WHO might I add, is bigger than anything the devil himself could even conjure on Halloween Night - shouldn't we be out there being light instead of hiding?
Now before I go any further - I am NOT for going out and telling everyone on Halloween they are going to the very hell they are dressing up as if they don't accept Jesus! I am NOT for handing out tracks instead of candy and I am not for preaching on Halloween, to be truthful, I'm not even for doing an alternative harvest party. So what does being light look like if I can't hand out tracks you ask? Great question!
My hang ups with aggressive outreach to the hellbent attendees of Halloween is that we haven't earned the right to be heard in their lives - so we appear, well - crazy to them. What is our truth to them when we won't give them the time of day any other day of the year? Tracks, have been effective randomly - but again, how much harder is it for them if they have no one to answer their questions, or show them what true love looks like? It is arms length evangelism that is ineffective, maybe even damaging and serves more to make us feel holy, then help people actually encounter the true love and grace of Jesus. Has God used these means before - of course - even Paul said that if Jesus was being preached by "whatever means", it was a good thing. Doesn't mean it's best!
In a nutshell, to redeem Halloween, I think we need to do the following:
1) Stop fearing Halloween - OUR GOD IS BIGGER
2) Stop making those who participate in Halloween our ENEMY - Instead, why not join them, get to know them, offer to have them over to your place for dinner and invest relationship! Why not show them what true love and acceptance look like?
3) Find ways to let your light shine -without ever once mentioning Jesus, their destiny in Hell or some other guilt trip - instead let your light shine through kindness, listening and true genuine relationship with people God cares IMMENSELY about - overlooking the halloween or other petty distractions we get all bent out of shape about. Let relationship grow, and THEY, seeing your good works, will ask you about this strange behavior and open their hearts to you for you to share your faith with them.
I dare you this Halloween to bundle up little bags of candy, attach a card to them that says "For all the years you have given out candy on Halloween, THANK YOU" Put your name and address on the back if you like! Then go trick or treating, but instead of taking candy - give yours! This simple act of kindness will surprise EVERY house, and it will open doors in your neighbourhood. I dare you to join up with a neighbour and go trick or treating with them - buy them a coffee to stay warm and ask them questions about themselves the whole way, listening intently to discover the Gem that God adores so much. I dare you to look at halloween as an opportunity to serve, and to meet new people instead of an occasion you must fight, and protest. Tell me how it goes for you - I think you'll be pleasantly surprised!
This year, I'm dressing up, and participating with my church in TRICK or EAT - An event that collects non-perishable food items along trick or treat routes to raise food and funds for our local food bank. You can help to, just check out TRICK or EAT - help the BRANTFORD, ONTARIO chapter raise money, or organize your own event! It's time to Redeem Halloween!
I have heard all the historical facts or fiction of Halloween, it's symbolism, and many a story of what people used to do on Halloween. I have read the tracts, the warnings and the scary tales of demonic prowess that seem to prevail in halloween'ology. The fact remains that Halloween is still a huge tension for many christians. With a past so dark and devilish as it is for Halloween, it would seem that associating with such ghosts and ghouls may actually turn you into one. Right?
Here's my take on Halloween! Sure... it has some icky roots! Sure, there are many a people out there who choose to do odd, horrible or strange things in the name of Halloween, and sure, there are many scary costumes, ideas and images that prevail. My question is, why is hiding the right answer to this? As carriers of the Holy Spirit - WHO is GOD - WHO might I add, is bigger than anything the devil himself could even conjure on Halloween Night - shouldn't we be out there being light instead of hiding?
Now before I go any further - I am NOT for going out and telling everyone on Halloween they are going to the very hell they are dressing up as if they don't accept Jesus! I am NOT for handing out tracks instead of candy and I am not for preaching on Halloween, to be truthful, I'm not even for doing an alternative harvest party. So what does being light look like if I can't hand out tracks you ask? Great question!
My hang ups with aggressive outreach to the hellbent attendees of Halloween is that we haven't earned the right to be heard in their lives - so we appear, well - crazy to them. What is our truth to them when we won't give them the time of day any other day of the year? Tracks, have been effective randomly - but again, how much harder is it for them if they have no one to answer their questions, or show them what true love looks like? It is arms length evangelism that is ineffective, maybe even damaging and serves more to make us feel holy, then help people actually encounter the true love and grace of Jesus. Has God used these means before - of course - even Paul said that if Jesus was being preached by "whatever means", it was a good thing. Doesn't mean it's best!
In a nutshell, to redeem Halloween, I think we need to do the following:
1) Stop fearing Halloween - OUR GOD IS BIGGER
2) Stop making those who participate in Halloween our ENEMY - Instead, why not join them, get to know them, offer to have them over to your place for dinner and invest relationship! Why not show them what true love and acceptance look like?
3) Find ways to let your light shine -without ever once mentioning Jesus, their destiny in Hell or some other guilt trip - instead let your light shine through kindness, listening and true genuine relationship with people God cares IMMENSELY about - overlooking the halloween or other petty distractions we get all bent out of shape about. Let relationship grow, and THEY, seeing your good works, will ask you about this strange behavior and open their hearts to you for you to share your faith with them.
I dare you this Halloween to bundle up little bags of candy, attach a card to them that says "For all the years you have given out candy on Halloween, THANK YOU" Put your name and address on the back if you like! Then go trick or treating, but instead of taking candy - give yours! This simple act of kindness will surprise EVERY house, and it will open doors in your neighbourhood. I dare you to join up with a neighbour and go trick or treating with them - buy them a coffee to stay warm and ask them questions about themselves the whole way, listening intently to discover the Gem that God adores so much. I dare you to look at halloween as an opportunity to serve, and to meet new people instead of an occasion you must fight, and protest. Tell me how it goes for you - I think you'll be pleasantly surprised!
This year, I'm dressing up, and participating with my church in TRICK or EAT - An event that collects non-perishable food items along trick or treat routes to raise food and funds for our local food bank. You can help to, just check out TRICK or EAT - help the BRANTFORD, ONTARIO chapter raise money, or organize your own event! It's time to Redeem Halloween!
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2 comments:
Hey Nicki, well written... I really like your comments about not being scared of Halloween. I also see your point about our God being bigger, light in the darkness etc. etc... I do disagree with you, but i appreciate that you give your points and allow for opinions, Im going to give my thoughts...
I believe that hiding out is stupid and some may do that, but some may also walk around their house nude, that doesn't mean that is what most Christians are doing, maybe 40 years ago, but certainly not now. I have been part of many Halloween events in the past. I have done the church party, I've gone to friends houses, I've handed out candy and I've forgotten it is halloween and have to turn the lights out after rooting around the pantry for a can of tuna for the first kid to come by. And I have come to the realization that you can hand out candy to your neighbours and still not sign up for the mark of the beast. the problem I have with the sending my daughter out on Halloween is that like it or not the holiday is a celebration of evil, drive down the street and look at the decor and tell me that while a subtle plan, that the enemy hasn't made this day all about him. and while I don't want to put up a sign that says trick or treat and you are on your way to hell... cuz it really is a personal choice. but i dont feel right with it in my spirit. and that is all that matters. and yours might feel differently and that is cool. ultimately does it really matter in the grand scheme of life If I join with my neighbors and go door to door for candy or if I just go to friends house and have a meal? Why is this still a conversation? Why do we need to feel the need to force our Halloween beliefs on the Christian masses? Why cant I just take my daughter out of school for the day without being labelled as an immature or young believer? Why cant I choose to look at October 31st as just another day? Cuz in reality if the only day you make inroads into your neighborhood is on halloween then chances are you are doing a piss poor job at being light in your neighborhood. Why do I have to feel pressure to do what others are doing, why cant I just listen to what God is saying to me to do? and just do that? Honestly the whole thing tires me out.
I also am not a fan of tracts. But I do honour and respect those that are at least willing to hand out literature that could change a persons life. I believe that if the Holy Spirit wants to encounter someone, he can use a sucker, a burger, a tract or a prayer for healing and I believe that he will use whatever people are willing to do in his name to encounter someone whos heart is ready. If you give a dude a burger on Friday night and he isnt ready or doesnt want to talk about God then it is just that a seed planted and a full tummy, God is just happy that you stand their and do something. I am tired of the modern church slamming on door to door evangelism and tracts and other tools that have been used in the past, while I certainly wouldnt use them, I honour those that do. and respect their efforts in the name of the Lord. certainly not best... Well best is whatever God says to do, you do it and you partner with the Holy Spirit and the person accepts Christ.
Thanks for allowing me to give my opinions. I appreciate your blog and your thoughts.
Halloween is not actually a holiday of evil; some people (including Christians, Non-Christians, and satanists) have the mistaken notion that Halloween is a holiday celebrating evil! In reality--God's reality--Halloween is a Christian holiday! The word Halloween comes from All Hallows Eve--All Saints Day. Dress your children as angels and holy people of God including Biblical Heroes... soldiers of light to cast out the present darkness!
He sends us out like lambs among wolves (those who desperately need Love and Truth) and i think you, Nicki, are thinking with the mind of Christ on this issue. I also commend you for your wonderful idea to go door to door and *give* candy!
God bless,
A Brother in Christ
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